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Secrets of Style Revealed for You

We know you want to always be at the height of fashion but may not know the secrets of style. Now, those secrets are revealed right here in DC. And you can be part of it.

We’re proud to be involved in this terrific idea showcased in The Washington Post.

Sylene DC specializes in making all your assets look good because we work with your body the way it is today. All of our sales associates are trained to fit you with the right size and right intimate wardrobe for your lifestyle. Help us help you today.


When you buy lingerie, you should have some basic goals in mind. You want to look good and you want to feel good wearing it. Let’s face it, comfort is more important than style. So with that in mind, here are three tips that will help you pick the right lingerie. And remember our experts at Sylene DC are always here to help.

Your Mind:

Before you go ahead and buy lingerie for yourself, know how you feel about your body. Give some time to yourself to analyze your body.  The type of lingerie you choose can transform you into a different person and make you feel different as well. Lingerie is supposed to make you feel sexy and great. It’s your state of mind and how you think, that can impact your choices.

Your Body:

Depending on the type of body you have there are so many choices for you. It’s really all about what you like when you try it on. You can go for a v neckline with spaghetti straps nightgown that can make you look super sexy.  Add a little excitement like wearing a pair of stilettos or gloves to give that sexy touch. Women who have a little bit of tummy can go for an empire waist which is good in hiding tummy flaws. A lot can be done, it’s all about adding a bit of creativity.

Lingerie Themes:

Creating a lingerie theme can be the most exciting thing. Organize your wardrobe according to themes like Valentine’s Day, Birthday and Christmas. You can also try themes like bridal, French maid and retro style that would look simply amazing.

Whatever you decide, remember, it’s all about feeling great about yourself. Ask us at Sylene DC for some great tips.


So many of us get married this time of year. You’ve been planning for this day for…. well… forever!

You’ve gone over every last detail from the dress to the menu, flowers, photographer and the guest list.

But what about what you’re going to wear under your wedding gown? Keep in mind that what’s under your dress is as important as the dress itself.

You’d be amazed at what a difference the correct foundation garment can make to the way a dress fits and flows on you. In fact the best wedding dress designers will ask you and help you plan what to wear with the gown. They may even have it specially made for you.

Most designers would recommend that you wear a strapless bra on your wedding day but it can be extremely uncomfortable if it doesn’t fit right (not to mention the forever checking if it’s properly in place). If you’re wearing a backless gown this won’t do at all. You’d need to wear something that can’t be seen at all!

So, before you go shopping for the lingerie to go with your gown, check the style, fit and material of your gown. If it’s a strapless you may opt to wear a bustier instead. It is meant to hug your curves perfectly and it is long enough to stay in place without the straps. Choose one with a good push up to enhance your look at the nuptials. This is good for the off the shoulder ones as well.

If you’re dress was designed to bare your back then check out the new line of bras and corsets that have fasteners at the waist. If you can’t find one you like, take a look at the adhesive types that stick to your skin. It’s best that you give it a trial run first to ensure that you aren’t allergic to what makes it stick.

If your dress is too sheer, the color of your lingerie may show through and ruin your look. It may be a better idea to wear a color that matches your skin rather than white. It would be less obvious that way.

You’ll also need to think about the bottom line. Depending on the way your skirt is cut and its material, your panty line may show; especially if the style of your gown is a close fit and the material drapes. One piece body huggers of a very slim material and a high cut would be excellent for avoiding this problem. Some even have waist shapers which will be much appreciated by those brides who wish to look svelte at their wedding.

Whatever you decide, we here at Sylene DC are here to help you look and feel beautiful on your wedding day. We carry everything you’ll need to ensure your comfort and style when you say “I do.”


With so many bra styles and options, there’s no wonder so many full figure women get confused and either wear a wrong fit bra or don’t know what type of bra best suits their body shape. There are several key features that flatter different body shapes, here’s a list with the top 5 plus size affordable bra choices that stand for great fit, comfort and beautiful cleavage. Obviously, this list is not set in stone and we’d love to hear your comments with your own favorite plus size bra style choices.

Style 1. The Full Cup Bra

Ideal for full figured ladies with a fuller bust, the full cup bra offers excellent support. Designed for excellent comfort, the full cup bras usually have a three section cup for increased capacity, stronger side wings for better fit and a side bone for improved control, making them perfect for every day wear.

Style 2. The Soft Cup Bra

When wires are not a reliable option, a soft cup bra is the lingerie piece to rely for maximum comfort and support. Most sport bras are in this category. Great for curvy women, nursing mothers, fuller bust teenagers and ladies who have undergone surgery, the soft cup bra is easy to care as it’s machine washable and an essential for your lingerie drawer.

Style 3. The Balcony Bra


Probably one of the most common bra styles in lingerie, the balcony bras are fantastic plus size options that showcase your sexy neckline and cleavage, especially when you’re wearing a lower cut top. Try out one of the following brands for excellent uplift and the perfect support for your curvaceous features.

Style 4. The Moulded Bra


A God sent gift for any fitting garments, as they create an effortlessly smooth shape, the moulded bras are another excellent choice for full figure ladies. The greatest thing about this bra style is its flexibility, allowing you to pick either the rigid foam mould style for more uplift and contour or the softer style for a more natural shape look. Either way, you should make room for at least one of these in your bra collection.

Style 5. The Strapless Bra


There are people claiming that strapless bras are not an option for full figured women. They couldn’t be more wrong, EVERY woman should own at least one strapless bra. Fantastic for summer wear, a strapless bra couldn’t be more versatile and useful, providing natural shape both on special occasions and on every day basis. Pick a three section cup one for increased capacity, to keep your assets exactly where you want them without giving up to a beautiful uplifted cleavage.

Remember you can buy all these bra styles right here at SyleneDC.com!


So let’s be honest. Summer is almost over. Did you lose those few extra pounds you said you wanted to before going to the beach or pool? If not, you’re not alone. A lot of women don’t always love the way they look in a swimsuit. So for you, the real woman, here are some tips to looking great in that new swimsuit.

1. Motivate yourself to exercise (by any means necessary)

2. Look your leanest the easy way

‘I cut my carbs and sodium intake, and eat more protein and veggies for a few days before I wear or shop for a swimsuit. I am always surprised at how much less puffy I look — even though it doesn’t really change my size.’

3. Camouflage flaws with self-tanner

‘The night before I go bathing suit shopping, I use self-tanning lotion. In the morning, I wake up and have a healthy glow on my legs. Believe it or not, it really hides imperfections and makes it easier to imagine myself at the beach.’

4. Visualize your dream suit

‘Before I go out of the house, I stand in front of the mirror in my bra and underwear (I know that sounds weird) and visualize what an ideal bathing suit would look like on me. Most of the time, I can pick out what I want to hide and what I want to show off (if anything). Then I know what kind of suit I want and I start with those’ –Carrie

5. Focus on your best parts

‘When I look at myself in the mirror (even under the department store’s fluorescent lighting) I concentrate on what looks good! If my eyes go directly for the flabby stomach — I remind myself to look at my nice calves and shoulders. I’ll never look like a supermodel in a bathing suit — so I might as well stay positive about body.’

6. If you can’t be thin, buy rich

‘Over the years, I’ve found the best thing I can do to make myself feel ‘pretty’ is to invest in things that make me feel good. So, if the perfect swimsuit costs a little more — so be it! Invest in yourself. The suit will last longer and you’ll feel better in it. It will be worth it!’

7. Do a thorough evaluation (in the comfort of your own home)

‘I decide what I want in a suit (high neck, good bust support, tummy minimizer, for example). Then I go online and shop or look through catalogues. I always check the return policies before I make the purchase to be sure I can get my money back if it doesn’t fit. Then I buy and try until I find one I like. This process may be a little slower than scooping up an armful in a store, but I can try them on in the privacy of my own home. This gives me a better impression than I would get in five minutes in a dressing room.’

8. Or do it fast — like ripping off a plaster

‘I decide the color in advance, usually black. Then I head to the nearest rack, find a full-bottomed black one-piece bathing suit, dash to the dressing room and try it on. I don’t even look in the mirror! This is just a size check. If it fits, I dash out of the dressing room, grab a full body wrap to cover my bathing suit and my body and go to the nearest register before I change my mind.’

9. Remember, it’s not the size that counts

‘I tell myself to not pay attention to sizes. I think we sometimes get so focused on the size of the clothing, that we ignore everything else. So I don’t look at the tags and just buy what fits me!’

10. Know that you’ll be in good company

‘I mentally take a walk along all the beaches I’ve visited and remember what other women looked like when I was there. I concentrate on the women I saw who were large, clad in bathing suits, and wonderfully unselfconscious. They looked like they were having fun and didn’t care what they looked like. I remind myself that I can do that, too. I also remind myself that most people on the beach are more worried about how they look than I do!’


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Saha Illuminance Seaside Bikini

Regardless of a woman’s physical appearance, in more than 30 years in the swimsuit industry, I have never met a woman who enjoys shopping for a swimsuit. Two things that are consistent: women hate shopping for swimsuits and women always scrutinize their own bodies, whether they are a size two or a size 16.

Help exists as swimsuit designers create swimwear with different body types in mind, and trust me, the perfect suit does exist. When shopping for a must-have summer wardrobe essential, I have created a few helpful hints to help you find the suit that will make you feel and look fabulous:

1. FULL BUST – Do not despair ladies, there are many suits, both one piece and two piece styles, that come in D-F cups. Designers are listening to women’s cries for sexy and attractive suits that are specifically designed for D and DD cup women. These suits provide support and coverage and are very much in fashion. Finally, designers have come to realize that there are many full busted gals who want great looking suits that provide support and are attractive. You can find them with and without wires and with tummy control, if you desire.

2. TUMMY HIDER – If you want to camouflage your tummy, look for a suit that flatters and firms. Shirring, color blocking, asymmetrical patterns and surplice suits are effective ways to take control of the mid-section. This season, the monokini is another choice that can provide a slimming illusion with a sexy appearance. This is a hybrid between a two piece and a one piece suit, with its distinctive feature of fabric down the middle connecting the top and the bottom, yet revealing much of the mid-section.

3. LARGE THIGHS – Find a suit that takes the eye away from that area. Skirted tankinis are a great option, as are swim dress suits or boy short suits (jogger style).

4. HIP PROBLEMS – If you are trying to deemphasize the hip area, then you need to find a suit that flatters the leg. You should look for a suit that is cut up higher on the leg because it makes your hips look smaller. Dark bottoms are also a good choice. Also try to find a suit that has interest across the top to take your eye upward, away from the hip area.

5. LONG TORSO – Suits are now available in longer lengths. Tankinis and two piece suits are great for long torsos, too. Emphasis at the waist deemphasizes the length of the torso.

6. SMALL BUST – Many suits are available that will provide cleavage and fullness. Look for suits that have push up cups or pads inside. Shirring across the bust is also good and embellishments on the upper area add fullness. Find a suit with ruffles or a big and busy design to add emphasis to that area.

After you have found the suit that makes your body look great, the next shopping task is to find the cover up and accessories to further compliment your fashion style. Just as there are many choices in the swimsuit market that work with different body types, the same holds true with cover ups.  If you are bottom heavy, the short skirt may not be the right cover up choice for you. Take time to try on the garment with the swimsuit to see how you look. While not an absolute necessity to match the cover up with the swimsuit, there are many choices that provide a sophisticated look. Often, a cover up can even double as a top or resort apparel item resulting in maximum usage. Coverups with long sleeve shirts look great with a pair of linen slacks or jeans.

Finally, do not forget your head and feet when preparing for a beach weekend. A straw visor is a trendy look and it is easy to pack. Thong sandals continue to be the rage.  Beach bags are great for ensuring you do not leave anything at home.

All of these items put together will result in a perfect suit for your body type along with increased body confidence and a strong fashion look while hitting the beach or hanging poolside.


It is not too late for summer beach getaways, which means it’s not too late to find your perfect swimsuit. Cyla Weiner, bra and swimwear fitting expert and owner of Washington DC lingerie and swimwear boutique Sylene of Washington, provides insights into this season’s swimsuit trends:

1. COLOR— Black is a universal color and is always in style and flattering. Extremely popular for 2010 are suits of solid emerald green and purple, which will be strong for Fall fashion too. Always good are red, hot pink, and sea foam blue which compliment most complexions.

2. STYLE— The one shoulder is popular but doesn’t work well for tan lines. The bandeau and tankini top may be a better way to go. Mix and match 2-piece suits are everywhere this summer and let you mix sizes, ensuring a better fit.

3. DETAIL— There seems to be less hardware on swimwear than in previous seasons, which tends to just discolor or get hot anyway. Ruching and shirring are popular and create a more flattering line for most body types.

4. PATTERN— Stripes and bold paisley patterns are prominent this year. (My daughter even found a swimsuit with purple paisley very similar to her Vera Bradley towel & bag pattern. She was thrilled!)

5. LARGE BUSTED—Designers are listening! Suits specifically designed for DD+ cup women and women who have had mastectomies are sexier this year. Check FantasieFreya, Shoshanna and Roidal for “extra support” this season.


Illustration by Paul Sahre

Most of us have heard the story of Debrahlee Lorenzana, the 33-year-old Queens, N.Y., woman who sued Citibank last month, claiming that, in pencil skirts, turtlenecks, and peep-toe stilettos, she was fired from her desk job for being “too hot.” We’ve also watched Lorenzana’s credibility come into question, as vintage clips of her appearance on a reality-TV show about plastic surgery portray a rambling, attention-obsessed twit, stuffed to the brim with implants and collagen. (“I love plastic surgery,” she coos. “I think it’s the best thing that ever happened.”) Creepy, yes. But for all the talk about this woman’s motives—and whether or not she was indeed fired for her looks—there’s one question nobody seems to want to ask: isn’t it possible Lorenzana’s looks got her the job in the first place?

Not all employers are that shallow—but it’s no secret we are a culture consumed by image. Economists have long recognized what’s been dubbed the “beauty premium”—the idea that pretty people, whatever their aspirations, tend to do better in, well, almost everything. Handsome men earn, on average, 5 percent more than their less-attractive counterparts (good-looking women earn 4 percent more); pretty people get more attention from teachers, bosses, and mentors; even babies stare longer at good-looking faces (and we stare longer at good-looking babies). A couple of decades ago, when the economy was thriving—and it was a makeup-less Kate Moss, not a plastic-surgery-plumped Paris Hilton, who was considered the beauty ideal—we might have brushed off those statistics as superficial. But in 2010, when Heidi Montag’s bloated lips plaster every magazine in town, when little girls lust after an airbrushed, unattainable body ideal, there’s a growing bundle of research to show that our bias against the unattractive—our “beauty bias,” as a new book calls it—is more pervasive than ever. And when it comes to the workplace, it’s looks, not merit, that all too often rule.

Consider the following: over his career, a good-looking man will make some $250,000 more than his least-attractive counterpart, according to economist Daniel Hamermesh; 13 percent of women, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (and 10 percent of men, according to a new NEWSWEEK survey), say they’d consider cosmetic surgery if it made them more competitive at work. Both points are disturbing, certainly. But in the current economy, when employers have more hiring options than ever, looks, it seems, aren’t just important; they’re critical. NEWSWEEK surveyed 202 corporate hiring managers, from human-resources staff to senior-level vice presidents, as well as 964 members of the public, only to confirm what no qualified (or unqualified) employee wants to admit: from hiring to office politics to promotions, even, looking good is no longer something we can dismiss as frivolous or vain.

Fifty-seven percent of hiring managers told NEWSWEEK that qualified but unattractive candidates are likely to have a harder time landing a job, while more than half advised spending as much time and money on “making sure they look attractive” as on perfecting a résumé. When it comes to women, apparently, flaunting our assets works: 61 percent of managers (the majority of them men) said it would be an advantage for a woman to wear clothing showing off her figure at work. (Ouch.) Asked to rank employee attributes in order of importance, meanwhile, managers placed looks above education: of nine character traits, it came in third, below experience (No. 1) and confidence (No. 2) but above “where a candidate went to school” (No. 4). Does that mean you should drop out of Harvard and invest in a nose job? Probably not. But a state school might be just as marketable. “This is the new reality of the job market,” says one New York recruiter, who asked to have her name withheld because she advises job candidates for a living. “It’s better to be average and good- looking than brilliant and unattractive.”

Remember the story about the 1960 Nixon-Kennedy debate? It goes to show our beauty bias is nothing novel. At the time, radio listeners thought Nixon had won, but those watching Kennedy’s tanned, chiseled face on TV, next to a worn-down, 5 o’clock-shadowed Nixon, were sure it was the junior senator. There are various explanations for some of this. Plato wrote of the “golden proportions,” which dubbed the width of an ideal face an exact two thirds its length, a nose no longer than the distance between the eyes. Biologically speaking, humans are attracted to symmetrical faces and curvy women for a reason: it’s those shapes that are believed to produce the healthiest offspring. As the thinking goes, symmetrical faces are then deemed beautiful; beauty is linked to confidence; and it’s a combination of looks and confidence that we often equate with smarts. Perhaps there’s some evidence to that: if handsome kids get more attention from teachers, then, sure, maybe they do better in school and, ultimately, at work. But the more likely scenario is what scientists dub the “halo effect”—that, like a pack of untrained puppies, we are mesmerized by beauty, blindly ascribing intelligent traits to go along with it.

There are various forces to blame for much of this, from an economy that allows pickiness to a plastic-surgery industry that encourages superficial notions of beauty. In reality, it’s a confluence of cultural forces that has left us clutching, desperately, to an ever-evolving beauty ideal. Today’s young workers were reared on the kind of reality TV and pop culture that screams, again and again, that everything is a candidate for upgrade. We’ve watched bodies transformed on Extreme Makeover, faces taken apart and pieced back together on I Want a Famous Face. We compare ourselves with the airbrushed images in advertisements and magazines, and read surveys—like this one—that confirm our worst fears. We are a culture more sexualized than ever (Mad Men notwithstanding), with technology that’s made it easier than ever to “better” ourselves, warping our standards for what’s normal. Plastic surgery used to be for the rich and famous; today we’ve leveled the playing field with cheap boob jobs, tummy tucks, and outpatient procedures you can get on your lunch break. Where that leads us is running to stand still: taught that good looks are no longer a gift but a ceaseless pursuit.

Deborah Rhode, a Stanford law professor and author of The Beauty Bias, is herself an interesting case study. During her term as chair of the American Bar Association’s commission on working women, she was struck by how often the nation’s most powerful females were stranded in cab lines and late for meetings because, in heels, walking any distance was out of the question. These were working, powerful, leading women, she writes. Why did they insist on wearing heels? Sure, some women just like heels (and still others probably know their bosses like them). But there is also the reality that however hard men have it—and, from an economic perspective, their “beauty premium” is higher, say economists—women will always face a double bind, expected to conform to the beauty standards of the day, yet simultaneously condemned for doing so. Recruiters may think women like Lorenzana can get ahead for showing off their looks, but 47 percent also believe it’s possible for a woman to be penalized for being “too good-looking.” Whether or not any of it pays off, there’s something terribly wrong when 6-year-olds are using makeup, while their mothers spend the equivalent of a college education just keeping their faces intact. “All of this is happening against a backdrop of more women in the workplace, in all kinds of jobs, striving toward wage equality,” says Harvard psychologist Nancy Etcoff. “So we’re surprised—but we shouldn’t be—how this [beauty curse] continues to haunt us.”

Forty years ago, when feminists threw their bras into the “Freedom Trash Can” outside the 1968 Miss America pageant (no, they didn’t really burn them!), it was to protest the idea that women had become “enslaved by ludicrous beauty standards,” as the organizers put it. At the time, women still made up just a fraction of the workforce, and yet they were rejecting the notion that, in work or play, they had to be confined to the role of busty secretary—a mere office toy. A decade later, as women entered the workforce in droves, it was boxy suits, not bustiers, that defined their dress. But today’s working women have achieved “equality” (or so we’re led to believe): they dominate the workforce, they are household breadwinners, and so they balk at having to subvert their sexuality, whether in the boardroom or on the beach. Yet while the outside-work milieu might accept the empowered yet feminine ideal, the workplace surely doesn’t. Studies show that unattractive women remain at a disadvantage in low-level positions like secretary, while in upper-level fields that are historically male-dominated, good-looking women can suffer a so-called bimbo effect. They are viewed as too feminine, less intelligent, and, ultimately, less competent—not only by men but also by their female peers.

To add an extra layer of complexity, there’s the conundrum of aging in a culture where younger workers are more tech-savvy, cheaper, and, well, nicer on the eyes. Eighty-four percent of managers told NEWSWEEK they believe a qualified but visibly older candidate would make some employers hesitate, and while ageism affects men, too, it’s particularly tough for women. As Rhode puts it, silver hair and furrowed brows may make aging men look “distinguished,” but aging women risk marginalization or ridicule for their efforts to pass as young. “This double standard,” Rhode writes, “leaves women not only perpetually worried about their appearance—but also worried about worrying.”

The quest for beauty may be a centuries-old obsession, but in the present day the reality is ugly. Beauty has more influence than ever—not just over who we work with, but whether we work at all.

Jessica Bennett is a senior writer covering society and cultural affairs. Find her on Twitter.


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